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Why do you want a daughter? Why does your husband yearn for a son? Why does the first son in a family seem to grab the most attention? What motivates couples to seek family balancing techniques? There’s no simple answer as to what makes people yearn for a baby boy or girl. But most of the reasons have emotional, or cultural roots or both. Some people cannot even put into words why they long for a baby girl or boy—they just do.

This section explores what motivates people to seek baby girls and boys today. We also look at how couples move from yearning into action.  Since the practice of gender selection carries some negative connotations, some people don’t tell anyone about their decisions, fearing judgment or scorn. Some do it just because the technology is there.

We also explore the legal and ethical issues connected with family balancing.  A strong segment of society see PGD as the blind march of technology down the slippery slope of designer babies and eugenics. What’s next, they ask? A world of blond-haired, blue-eyed, 6’4” men?  Others see this slope as meddling with nature, with untold consequences.  We sort through these issues here, and present the views of some leading ethicists and doctors in the field.

In addition, we present two leading organizations' prescriptions on family balancing: the American Society of Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) and the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG).

The emerging laws on family planning are also discussed, along with a list of the countries that currently ban PGD for gender selection purposes.

Why Gender Selection?

In Western cultures, many women yearn for a baby girl. In many Asian, Middle Eastern and some North African cultures, both men and women tend to want a son. But almost universally, families with a brood of children of one gender, say 6 girls, or 8 boys, desire to have at least one child of the opposite sex. Numerous factors lead couples to family balancing. Generally, parents want at least one child of their own gender because they believe... [more]

Gender Selection and Infertility Patients

Some patients undergoing infertility treatment consider family balancing because they’re already undergoing IVF and want to take advantage of the option of choosing gender via PGD.  According to Phyllis Martin, a licensed counselor based in Fairfax, Virginia, “Either the clock has run out or they have secondary infertility. They’re in their forties. They’re probably only going to have two children. And … they think, ‘We’d like to have one... [more]

Gender Selection: Making the Decision

Couples often have many different reasons for wanting to select the gender of their next baby, and they have many different conflicted emotions once they get started. For some, the decision is made, but they still feel morally or ethically conflicted, they worry about the cost, or they worry about their other children and what it will mean for their family. Some feel that they are playing God. They second-guess themselves from the start to the... [more]

Ethical, Moral and Social Issues

Across history, with the advent of many new technologies or scientific discoveries has come fear and doubt. “It’s meddling with nature!” “It’s immoral!” “It’ll destroy the fabric of society.” “It’s against God’s will!” Such reactions surfaced after Galileo (confirming Copernicus’s discovery) declared the earth revolved around the sun not vice versa. Similar outcries dominated the media when the birth control pill came out in the early 1960s.... [more]

Legal Issues

In the U.S., gender selection technologies, such as PGD, are both legal and available, but with limits. At least six countries have banned the use of gender selection completely.  In some cases, people will travel to the U.S. to use gender selection and assisted reproductive technology (ART). Various organizations offer guidelines or recommendations on the use of gender selection, including the American Society of Reproductive Medicine... [more]

 
 

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John G. Wilcox [ 05-08-2011 07:03 ]

re: Do I have to already have one child to use gender selection?

No, you and your HRC fertility doctor will discuss whether this decision is right for you and your family.

David E. Tourgeman [ 05-08-2011 07:02 ]

re: Legal issues

Gender selection is legal in the United States. Living in a country where gender selection is not legal does not preclude you from becoming an HRC...

Jeffrey R. Nelson [ 05-08-2011 07:00 ]

re: What is PGD?

PGD is preimplantation genetic diagnosis. It is conducted during the in vitro fertilization (IVF) process. Once the eggs have been fertilized and...